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Too much truth can keep you from the truth!

Too much truth can keep you from the truth!

One of the more interesting observations I have made from years of counseling is that I do not teach people so much about the truth of God’s Word as much as teach them how to apply the truth of God’s Word.

What is most interesting about this observation is that many of these counselees have spent a good portion of their lives in various kinds of biblical studies or other theological training. Some of my counselees would be considered lifetime Sunday school attenders. Others have been committed to the “Women’s Bible Study” meetings of their local church for a decade or more. While others have been faithful attenders to the assorted “Men’s Meetings” that their church offers.

While I’m not saying that any of these meetings are wrong and I’m not on a campaign to dismantle or dissolve any of these meetings, I am saying that something is amiss if our seemingly endless and consistent pursuit of knowledge is not leading us to transformative application.

Always learning and never able to arrive at a knowledge of the truth. – 2 Timothy 3:7 (ESV)

Typically, what I do in counseling is teach the individual how to apply the bible knowledge that has been accumulated through the years.

Something Is Wrong!

It is not a guarantee that effective transformation will come through “over-participation” in bible studies. Having someone preach or teach to you is not the same as you effectively preaching to yourself what you already know to be true.

When training my counselors, I often tell them the following: “Be careful about telling your counselees what to do. Lead them to the place of discovering and applying God’s truth for themselves.” God asked Adam where he was when Adam was “lost.” God knew where Adam was, but Adam was not fully aware of where he was. God was provoking Adam to think and respond to him rather than telling him what he needed to know. (Genesis 3:9)

Telling a child that 2 + 2 = 4 is not as effective as letting the child wrestle through the learning process. Application is a key component in teaching or counseling. Telling someone the truth is one thing, but leading them to discover the truth is far superior. If they discover it and own it, it will be theirs for the rest of their lives. Similarly, sitting in the Sunday meeting and soaking up the Sunday message will lose its effectiveness if there are no processes in place for the Christian to work the sermon deep into the core of his/her being.

There have to be contexts for the application of God’s Word after God’s Word is preached or God’s Word will lose its effectiveness. It seems as though that for some there is an over-reliance or “mystic” reliance on the Holy Spirit to make the truth real, practical and effective in their lives after they have heard it.

After years of counseling, I would say that some of the brightest and most knowledgeable Bible students can be no different than the Sunday school beginner when it comes to living in the fullness and joy that God offers through the Gospel.

If the Christian is not regularly applying the truth, he will not be living an effective Christian life. Countless Bible studies are no substitute for taking one sermon or lesson and working it into your life. In fact, too many studies can desensitize you to the truth you are trying to learn. – Charlie Boyd

This brings us to Psalm 103

David is doing something remarkable in Psalm 103. Quite simply he is “preaching to himself” the benefits of God. David is taking his soul to task by reminding himself of two specific things:

  • What he knows to be true about God
  • How he has personally experienced what he knows to be true about God

While it is true that faith comes by hearing the Word of God, it would not be wise to think that being within earshot of the truth is good enough. David was a student of God’s Word and a man after God’s heart, but he knew that in order to be transformed by God’s word that he needed to work the truth into the fabric of his soul until he owned it.

How have you experienced God?

The most profound experience that any believer can have with God is his experience of God through the Gospel. The singular truth that has made God more real to me than anything else, in over 25 years of walking with him, is the Gospel. The transformative reminder of the Gospel is the one thing that has buoyed me through some of life’s most heart rendering challenges.

  • The Gospel reminds me that God loves me
  • The Gospel reminds me that I should not fear
  • The Gospel reminds me that everything will be okay
  • The Gospel reminds me that my worst problem in life has been resolved
  • The Gospel reminds me that God will go to infinite lengths to take care of me

Forget Not His Gospel!

This is what David told himself…

Bless the LORD, O my soul, and all that is within me, bless his holy name! Bless the LORD, O my soul, and forget not all his benefits. – Psalm 103:1-2 (ESV)

What do you tell yourself?

These are part of my notes from the 08.29.10 sermon preached at Southside Fellowship

Application Questions

  1. What contexts do you have to apply God’s Word to your life?
  2. Do you have authentic, honest, and transparent relationships that help you apply God’s Word to your life?
  3. Are you more apt to “listen” to yourself or “talk” to yourself?
  4. What specific ways have you “preached to yourself” today?

Other Related Posts

  1. Too Many Bible Studies, Pastor. Too Many Bible Studies, 1.0
  2. Too Many Bible Studies: Here’s What We Do, 2.0
  3. The Best Bible Study Ever, 3.0
  4. The Missing Element in Bible Studies, 4.0

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Free Tim Keller Audio Download

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This month’s free audiobook Ministries of Mercy is exciting because so many of us here at christianaudio appreciate the work and ministry of Tim Keller. He has written several important books of late, all of which are highly recommended and helpful. Ministries of Mercy, although an earlier title of his, is just as timely and relevant today as Tim’s latest writings.

We are thrilled to highlight the topic of Gospel driven mercy ministries and the role and responsibility Christians share. We are also grateful to P&R Publishing for partnering with us to offer this free download, as well as Westminster Bookstore which is also offering a 50% discount for the print version of Ministries of Mercy for the month of August (until the 31st)!

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You Can Pre-Order My Book Now

You Can Pre-Order My Book Now

Help! My Marriage Has Grown Cold is a 64-page mini-booklet about Julie, Bob, and a marriage that has grown cold. Though Bob has checked out of their marriage, Julie decides to get help to win her marriage back to God. This booklet is a counseling case study that walks you through their dating relationship, the marriage, and where it went wrong.

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Free Audio Download from Joni Eareckson Tada

Free Audio Download from Joni Eareckson Tada

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Joni was injured in a 1967 accident that left her a quadriplegic. In the years since, she has been a tireless advocate for those with disabilities and has become a prominent Christan author. In a recent announcement, we learned of her diagnosis of breast cancer which has been a shock to all who have followed Joni’s ministry over the years. Her amazing story and witness for Christ is available on her ministry website http://www.joniandfriends.org, on her Facebook page, and in her new book.

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When Testing Replaces Community – 4.0

When Testing Replaces Community – 4.0

The fact that Christians have been so easily persuaded by the validity of personality tests and have developed an affinity for such tests points to a lack of understanding and practice of the Bible in their lives. It is also an indictment of the local church, as it pertains to its weaknesses regarding discipling the body.

This may come as a surprise to some, but it is hardly a surprise for the biblical counselor. A lack of practical understanding of the Bible and a general weakness in local church discipleship processes was what gave rise to the biblical counseling movement in the 1970′s. Teaching people the practical truths of what Peter told us 2000 years ago is what keeps me in business as a para-Church (Read: alongside the local church, but not the local church) organization:

His divine power has granted to us all things that pertain to life and godliness, through the knowledge of him who called us to his own glory and excellence… – 2 Peter 1:3 (ESV)

We were granted all things that pertain to life and godliness long before Freud told Jung that they were going to change the world in the early 1900′s. Freud’s hatred for God motivated him to create a new way to think about the human condition. Many others have followed his path, as the psychological community has evolved into the ever-changing world of DSMs.

Because of the encroachments of the psychological community, it would be an unfair assumption to think that Christians know how to accurately understand themselves through the lens of Scripture. The primary reason that personality testing has such a foothold in the Christian mind is because of a general lack of awareness of the true purpose of Bible: to reveal the true person of God and the true person of man and how God came to transform man through the death and resurrection of His Son. Simply put, this is a discipleship issue.

Understand Your Gifting; Understand Yourself

For example, nothing can assess your gifting better than the Bible, especially in the context of a caring, discipleship community. Nothing can supplant the Bible when worked out through biblical discipleship processes, as far as assessing your personality. James gives us a clue as to how we drift from the Bible as a primary means of God’s grace that he gives us to help us understand ourselves better:

But be doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving yourselves. For if anyone is a hearer of the word and not a doer, he is like a man who looks intently at his natural face in a mirror. For he looks at himself and goes away and at once forgets what he was like. But the one who looks into the perfect law, the law of liberty, and perseveres, being no hearer who forgets but a doer who acts, he will be blessed in his doing. – James 1:22-25 (ESV)

The mirror, according to James’ inspired understanding, is the Word of God. James is saying that we tend to look into the Word (mirror), make some mental notes by assessing ourselves, and then quickly forget what we saw. When we do this, we are cutting ourselves off from being blessed.

Testing Replaces Community

As mentioned earlier in this post, another major key to biblical assessment is biblical community. The psychological tester unwittingly has replaced biblical community by their testing tools. The test has replaced the person as a means of grace to help figure out human deficiencies. I understand the problem: if you have never had consistent biblical fellowship in the context of a caring, discipleship community, where people were carefully and lovingly speaking into all areas of your life, then how can you know the sufficiency of Scripture and the practical transformative help that it brings to our lives through the community of faith? You can’t know what you don’t know.

Too many Christian husbands and wives do not experience this depth of biblical community, also called biblical fellowship (Kononia), where careful, loving, observation, and correction is given to them in order to adjust them so they may grow in ways that matter.

Too many Christian relationships are so superficial that it leaves one longing for something to help them grow. This leads the Christian community to look outside of the Bible and biblical contexts for self-discovery. One of the many means of grace that I have received from God, over the years, are people who are willing to love me enough to show me what I do not see about myself. A person who has this kind of community (Koinonia) is not only positioned for initial assessment, but there is a context in place for long-term, transformative growth.

If a test is your best option to accomplish what you are trying to do then I want to encourage you by letting you know that God has something for you that can blow your mind.

Caveat: When I speak of personality tests I am talking about tests that reveal your personality or your character. I am not talking about tests that seek to discover health, medical, or physical abnormalities.

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Personality Tests & Psychology – 3.0

Personality Tests & Psychology – 3.0

The past two days I have been writing about personality tests from a secular psychology worldview. This new way of thinking about the manifestations of our hearts has crept into our churches and has been bandied about as though it is biblical.

The proponents, who almost without exception love God, have their “verses” to support their claims. Sadly, what they do not understand is that there is only one point to any text and in the entire history of the church no person has interpreted a text to support their exegesis.

Scholars call this proof texting. This common method of teaching the Bible is not grounded in an understanding of what the various Bible writers actually taught. Proof texting, simply put, is compiling a short list of texts that support precisely what the person has already decided to believe.

It is also called “backing into a text.” This is when a person has a belief about something and they go into the Bible in order to find verses that somewhat point to what they believe.

I was first introduced to personality tests 30 years ago because of a desire to understand what makes me tick. And I liked what I read. I’m a Phleg/Mel btw.

There were many appealing aspects and compelling arguments about these kinds of tests.

  • I wanted to be understood. (Not a bad desire to be known.)
  • I wanted to understand myself. (The Bible appeals to us to look in the mirror. James 1:22-25)
  • These new ways of thinking about myself were not only novel, but appealing. (That makes sense.)
  • It “helped” me. (This is a weak argument, which usually points to pragmatism. You also have to unpack what “helped” means.)
  • It seemed right. (But I must admit that I had a limited understanding and practice of biblical psychology.)

These reasons were compelling enough, though my life was not markedly better and there was still a measure of unrest in my soul. In hindsight I see that my limitations, as it pertained to my sanctification, were in proportion to my limitations in understanding biblical psychology. But in God’s kind mercy to me, He not only regenerated me, but He began to teach me a better psychology, from the greatest psychology book ever written.

Biblical Psychology & the Psychologist Defined

The word psychology is a compound word: psychelogos. The word psyche means soul and the word logos means word or the study of. It could be said that the word psychology is the study of the soul or the word concerning the soul. A psychologist is a person who seeks to care for the soul. Psychology is the word derived from this definition: the study and practice of soul care.

The greatest psychologist who ever lived was Jesus Christ. It would be wrongheaded to say that somebody knew more about the soul than the One who created the soul. And the greatest psychology book ever written was the Bible. Therefore, my argument for the Bible is the same as my argument for the soul: if God created the Bible, then it would be wrongheaded to think there is a better book that explains man.

One of the bigger issues with these tests is that they are using the Bible to support their tests rather than using the Bible as the test. You see, the real, God-generated and God-ordained “personality tests” are contained in the Bible. The primary argument and very real problem is that we have a sufficiency of Scripture issue. This attack on God’s Word began in Genesis 3.

And it also smacks of an American-Christian-Centric-Biblical-Psychology.

  1. Do you think Christians in other countries, who do not have access to these new tests, are at a disadvantage because all they have is the Bible?
  2. Do you think you are better off by having these tests, as opposed to other American Christians who do not have this “advantage?”
  3. Do you think these tests reveal more about you and get to the heart of who you really are better than the Bible does?
  4. What weaknesses do you see in the Bible that make these tests desirable?
  5. How do these tests, plus the Bible, help you live out the two greatest commandments, as outlined in Matthew 22:36-40? (I assume the goal in administering and/or taking these tests is to maximize your ability to live out the two greatest commandments. If not, then I would like to know what other purpose(s) are greater than the two greatest commandments.)

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Otter-ology and other false continuums – 2.0

Otter-ology and other false continuums – 2.0

Yesterday’s blog post, I’m Type A! … I’m an Otter! … I’m Choleric! … What Are You? was a simple, but straightforward critique of pop psychology’s attempt to figure themselves out. The following is a tongue-in-cheek (hopefully humorous) critique of some of the pitfalls for Christians who are persuaded by our culture’s approach to soul care.

What You’re About to Read is NOT True: You are not a Light Pole Christian!

Positive Traits or Strengths

Negative Traits or Weaknesses

You are straightforward

You are stubborn

You are generally happy

You are unrelenting

You stand for truth

You limit your possibilities

Therefore, you are a “Light Pole Christian.”

A Few Warnings for Light Pole Christians

You are not a Light Pole Christian - No, really…you’re not. I just made this assessment up. I was sitting in my dining room looking at the light pole in my cul-de-sac. For real! I made it all up. I was looking at the light pole and began to draw metaphoric conclusions from my observations.

It is tall and, thus, “straightforward.” The lights at the top are bright, hence the “generally happy” conclusion. Because it is tall, I figured I’d throw in something about “standing for truth.” Get it? Of course, I had to go to the negative side of the spectrum in order to have a balanced assessment. Therefore, stubborn and unrelenting were obvious conclusions. The “limit your possibilities” was a stroke of creativeness. It took an extra five minutes of thinking about the light pole to come up with this one. The light, you see, can only illuminate so far. If I have just described you then please know that you are NOT a Light Pole Christian.

Accurate descriptors do not make accurate conclusions - People who do not have a proper understanding of the Bible are easily duped into this kind of approach to understanding the soul. What they do not realize is that God has given us all that we need to know in order to live a godly life. (See 2 Peter 1:3) But sadly for these Christians, who sincerely desire to grow, rather than advancing in their understanding of the Bible, they easily latch onto our culture’s explanations of the soul.

Therefore, when they read what seems to be an accurate assessment of themselves (and it may be accurate btw) they attach “authority” to the person who provides the assessment because he accurately described them. And, by doing so, the Christian accepts their conclusions as well. Based on the power of persuasion, an insatiable craving to be figured out, and a desire to change, the Christian embraces the conclusion and begins his/her new identity as a “Light Pole Christian.”

It is not a broad jump to embrace my conclusions if you believe I have accurately described you. This is a false continuum. A false continuum is precisely what drives the ADD and ADHD analysis. Assessing a child subjectively for ADD, which is the only method for “assessing” ADD and giving the child a conclusion based on a secularist subjective assessment is highly questionable.

Human psychology is not a board game - Many times people who embrace pop psychology’s explanations for the soul share their newly found wisdom in giddy ways. I have heard many, who embrace this approach, share their “Otter-ology” with humor and light-heartedness. They do not seem to understand that the Savior was executed on a cruel cross in order to transform them from their old nature into a new person in Christ.

But for these novices, being an Otter, Golden Retriever, Sanguine, Phlegmatic, or Type A personality unwittingly sucks the power from the Gospel message. God killed His Son so we can be better than that. These kinds of assessments are not the biblical route to a transformed and transforming life. Neither do they offer the biblical hope found in the Gospel. But, even worse, it places the focus more on self than the Savior who died for them. All things considered, this is a mockery of the Gospel.

If any person is in Christ…

If you are “in Christ” can I persuade you to humbly seek to think more like Christ? Make much of Him. Make less of yourself. (John 3:30) Are you better known as Type A or Christ-centered? Are people more aware of the results of your personality assessment or God’s assessment of you?

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I’m Type A! I’m an Otter! I’m Choleric! What are you? – 1.0

I’m Type A! I’m an Otter! I’m Choleric! What are you? – 1.0

One of the more intriguing oddities that our psychologized culture has foisted on our Christian culture is their way of thinking about and explaining the reasons why people do what people do. I don’t think they would have made as much headway in their opinions and speculations if the Christian community was not so self-fascinated with themselves.

Paul gave us the good news regarding who we were and now who we are, post-regeneration:

Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old has passed away; behold, the new has come. – 2 Corinthians 5:17 (ESV)

To be “in Christ” means that our old ways of living and thinking have passed away and a brand new way of thinking and living is our joy and privilege.

The Gospel is Too Simplified

I realize, that for many, Paul was overly simplistic in his way of looking at things, especially the “intricacies” of psychology. He essentially said the reason we do the things we do is fundamentally tied to our fallenness. Another way of saying it is that we are selfish and self-centered. It is not that hard to figure out. The most simplistic and cursory examination of my heart motives reveals this basic truth: I’m selfish and I need to change.

Over-examining my old ways of thinking and doing is not a biblically warranted or personally wise way to spend my time.

Now this I say and testify in the Lord, that you must no longer walk as the Gentiles do, in the futility of their minds. They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart. – Ephesians 4:17-18 (ESV)

Fascinating Infatuation

Our culture is head-over-heels in love with themselves. And because of their “unresolvable” fallenness they have no choice but to recycle, regurgitate, and re-describe who they are and why they do what they do. They do not have an alternative plan. They are lost! They are trapped in their fallen natures with no hope of ever escaping, apart from Christ. And because they reject Christ they have to evolve their thinking into more and more nonsensical explanations of the soul.

However, Christians should not be so easily persuaded or intrigued by their sloppy psychology. The Christian’s fascination with this kind of pop psychology is mind-boggling to me. I can not recount how many times I have heard the expression “I am a Type A personality.”

When Christians say this, they are merely explaining, in a more sanitized way, why they do what they do. The term is so general that it tells me nothing about the person I want to serve. And to say you’re a choleric or otter or golden retriever is just as ambiguous and unhelpful.  Though Christians would be appalled to think that they are, in some way, excusing themselves from their sinful behavior by embracing this kind of philosophy of understanding the human soul, but rationalizing their “former selves” away is, in part, what they are doing.

Many times the comeback to using this kind of pop psychology approach is along the lines of, “I am so glad someone understands me. Now I know why I am this way.” Don’t you think God understands you and that he has given us his Word so that we can understand you?

Which Letter Are You?

I had a man tell me many years ago that he was a “Type A” personality. Essentially, he was telling me why he practices the art of husbandry the way he does. And since he was pulling letters out of the alphabet to describe himself I suggested that he pick two others. I said, “Why don’t you try a ‘Type JC personality?’”

He either did not get what I was saying or he did not want to change his behavior. It’s been 13 years since our encounter and he is still predominantly Type A rather than JC.

I believe there are two primary reasons people buy into pop psychology’s nonsensical labeling of the human personality:

  1. We, like our culture, are generally self-absorbed and love to think about ourselves a lot. Our Zodiac signs, temperaments, and other ways to examine our personalities intrigue us. While some call it an advance in understanding the soul, it is really a distraction from the teaching of Scripture.
  2. We are illiterate, to varying degrees, as it pertains to theology and the application of theology in our lives. We quite simply do not understand the biblical categories that describe the human condition, which prohibits us from understanding the human condition from a biblical perspective.
CAVEAT: I do realize, as far as employment is concerned, certain types of psychological testing can be valuable in order for an employer to have somewhat of an idea of who he is hiring. Other than that, it is just a winsome way to talk more about yourself.

Thoughtful Questions to Reflect On

  1. How well are you at describing your sinfulness using biblical categories?
  2. When you realize the sinful/biblical reasons for your sin, how does repentance play out in your life?
  3. Do you spend more time looking back at who you were before Christ saved you or looking forward to who you are now that you are in Christ?
  4. How does living in the daily good of the Gospel contribute to your progressive transformation into Christlikeness?
  5. On your best day, do you see yourself as “in Christ?”
  6. On your worst day, do you see yourself as “in Christ?”

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The Pursuit of God: Free Audiobook Download

The Pursuit of God: Free Audiobook Download

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Fast (spiritual) Food Deteriorates Your (spiritual) Health

Fast (spiritual) Food Deteriorates Your (spiritual) Health

Seemingly all overweight studies say that Americans are mostly larger than they should be. I don’t think any of these reports are a big surprise to anyone. We are a fat culture. Here is a CDC stat:

  • Percent of non-institutionalized adults age 20 years and over who are overweight or obese: 67% (’05-’06)
  • Percent of non-institutionalized adults age 20 years and over who are obese: 34% (’05-’06)
  • Percent of adolescents age 12-19 years who are overweight: 18% (’05-’06)
  • Percent of children age 6-11 years who are overweight: 15% (’05-’06)
  • Percent of children age 2-5 years who are overweight: 11% (’05-’06)

We love eating. We love our food. We love food so much that we seemingly have no regard for our current health or the long-term effect of poor eating choices and patterns. What we eat, why we eat, where we eat, and how we eat reveal a lot about ourselves. The what, why, where, and how reveal what we are passionate about. Habits reveal passions.

What Are You Passionate About?

David tells us in Psalm 42:1-2

As a deer pants for flowing streams, so pants my soul for you, O God. My soul thirsts for God, for the living God. When shall I come and appear before God?

Job said in 23:12

I have treasured the words of his mouth more than my portion of food.

What am I passionate or desperate for? What is the thing that I really want more than anything else? You could say that the answer to this question may be found in my day-timer, how I devote my time. The sad news is that as my soul dips throughout the week, I tend to reach for filler foods to bring some form of temporary satisfaction to my soul. Here are a few ways I am tempted to go for “fast (soul altering) food” instead of the real meat that only God can provide:

Television Instead of Quiet Time: TV can easily become filler time. When I really need to be talking to God, I am tempted to turn the TV on and let it talk to me. Rather than me pursuing God, I am tempted to let the world of TV feed my soul. The word “amusement” means “without the mind.” The “a” negates the succeeding word, which is the word “muse” or “mind.” Therefore, the word amusement means to not use the mind. TV is not a passive process. You are not actively relaxing when you watch TV, but you are being actively engaged and shaped by the agenda of the program you are watching.

Facebook Instead of Relationship: I find that Facebook has been especially tempting in that it can offer a false sense of relational satisfaction. Facebook teases my craving for relationship, while keeping me from the potential risks that all real relationships can struggle with. I can engage virtually through Facebook instead of literally engaging another fallen human. Facebook is an excellent risk free filler food.

Self-Help Books Rather Than the Bible: The plethora of “solid” self-help books can slowly replace the need for the Bible. If my Bible plays second or third string to my other books, then I’m creating a distance between the ultimate “health food” and the filler food that has no real power for change.

Porn instead of Physical Intimacy: My body is not for me, but for my wife. However, if I take an anti-Gospel position on sex, then porn will be an easy temptation for me. Porn is for the selfish, lazy, and insecure man, who is not interested in giving, but taking. Rather than waiting, trusting, and going through the process of preparing real food, I choose a “quickie-fix” through the “Drive-Thru” world of the Internet.

  1. How do you satisfy your desire for (1) Quiet time; (2) Relationship; (3) Bible; (4) Physical Intimacy?
  2. What am I desperate for? What is the thing that I really want more than anything else? The answer to this question may be found in my day-timer, how I devote my time.
  3. How often do I drink from the Word of God? How does the Word of God fit into my overall soul care solution?
  4. What are my favorite filler-foods that replace my hunger for God? What are the precious things that I like to graze upon during my day?

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