http://www.competentcounseling.com/2008/12/27/shame-i-dont-want-anyone-to-know-what-im-going-through-2/ People Seeking Solutions Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:32:40 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.1-beta1 hourly 1 http://www.competentcounseling.com/2008/12/27/shame-i-dont-want-anyone-to-know-what-im-going-through-2/comment-page-1/#comment-112 anynomous Sun, 28 Dec 2008 05:23:50 +0000 http://competentcounseling.com/?p=2446#comment-112 Hi Rick. Thanks for this post. That is something I struggle with deeply. I never talk about things and when I do I feel that no one understands, that or I feel rejected. I'm starting to see the consequences of shutting people out in hard times. I'm hurting so bad because I shut God out and I just can't open by up. I can't be exposed. I used to be out going and now I am so quiet and everyone sees something is wrong but they can't get past the walls I've built. I like to believe that they don't care or don't know me well enough because I have a hard past and the thoughts of it can get overwhelming sometimes. Hi Rick. Thanks for this post. That is something I struggle with deeply. I never talk about things and when I do I feel that no one understands, that or I feel rejected. I’m starting to see the consequences of shutting people out in hard times. I’m hurting so bad because I shut God out and I just can’t open by up. I can’t be exposed. I used to be out going and now I am so quiet and everyone sees something is wrong but they can’t get past the walls I’ve built. I like to believe that they don’t care or don’t know me well enough because I have a hard past and the thoughts of it can get overwhelming sometimes.

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